{"id":8173,"date":"2025-06-07T12:29:32","date_gmt":"2025-06-07T12:29:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.2011familymakeover.com\/?p=8173"},"modified":"2025-06-07T12:29:32","modified_gmt":"2025-06-07T12:29:32","slug":"grey-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.2011familymakeover.com\/?p=8173","title":{"rendered":"Grey Man"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Anyone know what the grey man is? Or who he is? If you don&#8217;t, he&#8217;s succeeded. A grey man is the term for someone who blends in and doesn&#8217;t attract attention. In other words, a nobody who you wouldn&#8217;t give a second look. These days it&#8217;s advantageous, in certain times, to blend in and not stand out in a crowd. I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve all seen Matt Damon in the Jason Bourne movies. He&#8217;s an excellent example of a grey man. I mention this as more and more these days, unsuspecting people are becoming victims of random robbery and other crimes, just for being out in public. Truth is, there&#8217;s nothing random about it. What they&#8217;re wearing or driving, or even how their acting is like a worm on a hook to criminals looking to commit a crime of opportunity. I read an article about a guy who was surprised his truck was broken into and his gun was stolen, when he had a sticker on his back window that said, &#8220;Protected by Smith and Wesson&#8221;, hmm. Point is, there are times when you don&#8217;t want to stand out, traveling in a foreign country is one example. I used to not let Lori wear her jewelry or Rolex when flying alone to California years ago. Why attract attention as a single female traveling alone. Just a heads up as more and more these days, criminals are looking for targets, and they&#8217;ll always, and I mean always, chose the easiest one!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>James is playing in Tampa this weekend, last night and tomorrow night. He texted this picture  of Burm&#8217;s Steak House which has an entire dessert room or restaurant within the restaurant. They&#8217;re pretty famous and also have over 1 million bottles of wine. They of course gave him a private tour of the whole place, and he shared the pics. He gets special treatment wherever he goes, we can&#8217;t figure out why, ha. I got an email yesterday that all four of us, James, Marty, Davy and I, got our archery elk tags for our hunt in September. We&#8217;re packing in on horseback for a week hunting elk with bows. Can&#8217;t wait. We need to dust off our bows now as we&#8217;ll be leaving three months from next Tuesday. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ty&#8217;s off today. Jag and Ava are looking for apartments. Hope they end up down by DU rather than near downtown. It&#8217;s a much nicer, quieter and a safer neighborhood. Can&#8217;t wait until they come up next weekend. His car is in the shop and should be done next Thursday. We&#8217;re waiting on some wires as something, a mouse or gopher or something, chewed the wires going to the solenoid. That&#8217;s costing us $751 bucks! Always something.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hard to understand all the anti-sematic attacks these days. It&#8217;s like Nazi Germany all over again. Up until 5 or 6 years ago, you never heard of people attacking Jews. What&#8217;s even harder to understand is all the people supporting terrorists like Hamas. It&#8217;s directly due to what our colleges are teaching, no other explanation for it. Just another example of people not thinking for themselves or just following the crowd. My generations&#8217; motto was Question Authority. Different times. If I was Jewish, I&#8217;d practice the grey man principles I mention above. I&#8217;d do everything not to stand out in a crowd and attract attention. Point is, try to avoid being a victim. There is an opposite tactic, but not everyone can pull it off. That&#8217;s to look like someone that is the last person a criminal, or for that matter, anyone would want to mess with. Usually this is the route I go. At 6&#8217;4&#8243;, 200 pounds, it&#8217;s easier to look menacing and like someone you don&#8217;t want to fuck with. In public, I always have my head on a swivel and walk and look like I have an attitude. Often people are wary or scared of me, which I&#8217;m 100% ok with. If you&#8217;re going to stand out in a crowd, you&#8217;d better look and act like an alpha and not the vulnerable one in the pack. Think of a pack of wolves. You can spot the alpha male and easily spot the submissive weak members of the pack. Looking like someone you don&#8217;t want to cross or even make eye contact with, works if you can carry that attitude. If you&#8217;re in public and come across a member of a biker gang like the Hells Angels, you know what I mean.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That&#8217;s it for today. Re-reading this post is like reading a public service announcement, ha. Just my two cents. Someday when the kids go back and read this, it will hopefully give them a sense of what was going on in the World at this point in time. It&#8217;s really unbelievable what we as a society, have morphed into. Mom and Dad would be shocked. Anyhow, be well, stay safe and God Bless, and don&#8217;t act like a victim, or you will end up being one! <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Anyone know what the grey man is? Or who he is? If you don&#8217;t, he&#8217;s succeeded. A grey man is the term for someone who blends in and doesn&#8217;t attract attention. 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