A Year of Change

daant dant dant da, If you’re a football fan you know what that means. If I could write musical scales, it might help but those of us excited about today already know the tune.

Today is Championship Sunday. Two games today will decide who plays in the Super Bowl in two weeks. The only team I really care about is of course, the Green Bay Packers, GO PACK! I think we all know my Mom bleeds Green Bay green and yellow through and through. In fact anything Wisconsin is dear to her. For her sake, I pray they win. They play their arch rivals, the Chicago Bears, at Soldier Field. It’ll be 19 degrees with snow, or a nice sunny day to those who are familiar with Chicago weather in mid January. The great thing about sports is that nothing is predetermined, you don’t know who’s going to win until they play the game. GO PACK! Mom, you’d better be wearing that cheese head hat I brought you back from Wisconsin years ago! If not, turn it upside down and fill it up with cheese dip. Whatever you do, you’d better get it out.

The kids pretty much went right to sleep last night. My oldest just came down to join me on the couch. He’s such a good boy, they both are. They are always on the go and always seem so loud and can sometimes get on your nerves, but sometimes you just have to sit back, take a deep breath and let kids be kids. The youngest had a bit rougher time last night as he was sugared up from back to back birthday parties. On top of that, he also has been dealing with a cold going on a week now. Yes, runny noses and the sniffles are still here, but I somehow have managed to so far avoid it. I’m sure it’ll get me, you see 3 out of 4 of us (all except me), have been infected and I am now surrounded.

Time for me to get some coffee so for the first time, my lovely wife will take over mid stream and finish up today’s post. So long from me until tomorrow.

Breakfast together at the table this morning is proving to be a bit difficult. I made “Green monster”….smoothies…made with kale, whole kiwi, berries, bananas and a little agave syrup. Some days they like them and others…not so much. This morning is a “Not so much” kind of a day.

One of the parties yesterday was at a place called Jungle Quest. The kids swing from 30 and 40 ft trees (indoor), on zip lines..there is also a 60 or 70ft rock wall that my guys scaled in seconds. It is very safe, and the kids all have harnesses and safety instruction before being turned loose in the “Jungle”.

After arriving home from the second party, our youngest again donned his roller skates (in the house of course), and cruised around quite well. He is really getting fast, and at one point I had to tell him once again, “No roller skating upstairs”,ugg!

Dinner together was nice for a while.. until the littlest monkey realized there was mango in his fish taco and he left the table in tears over a tiny piece of fruit. Really?? I of course caved once again and took out the mango so he would finish his dinner. I don’t think that is exactly what Love and Logic had in mind in their “Dinner” chapter.  Oh well, I have to pick my battles and there seem to be so many battles these days that mango just did not make the list. Get dressed, brush your teeth, put on your shoes, tie your shoes, don’t hit your brother…the list goes on….thus mango did not make the cut.

Off to shower and go to church….have a wonderful Sunday.

God Bless

LLF

Time flies, it really does. The weekend is here again and it seems like yesterday we were waking up on a Saturday morning. I didn’t sleep much last night. I think I dozed off around 9 but woke up at 10:30 thinking it was morning. Next was an 8 hour stint of trying to close my eyes and waking up. Not sure when I would go to sleep but I did wake up at 12 midnight, 2am, 3am, 5:15 and now at 6:32. I know as I have a clock on my nightstand that I look at whenever I open my eyes. The boys are already downstairs, I think making breakfast. How do you feel about chocolate gummy bear sandwiches with syrup on top. The wife isn’t moving, so as soon as the volume downstairs escalates, I need to be prepared to jump up and run down to play referee. Whoops there it goes right now, too late. They’re both now upstairs crying from the first confrontation of the day. Luckily no one is bleeding.

I know the youngest has two birthday parties today and am not sure what his brother has going. Both boys have had stuffy noses and coughs for 2 or 3 days but no fever. I’m sure I’ll get the full blown version of whatever it is because they are usually only the carriers. You see, they purposely go out and pick up every germ in the world trying to bring it home to infect me. If by chance I somehow fight it off (through endless hand washing and avoiding any glass, fork, spoon or knife they touch), they then play with my phone or give it to their mother who will sooner or later give me a kiss and then I’m a done. This is known as a sneak attack.

It’s been a week and I’ve virtually had no flour. I did breakdown last night and have a piece of multigrain crust pizza from Whole Foods, boy was it good! Going to try to load everyone up and get to the gym as it’s been too many days since I’ve lifted anything other than laundry, trash, toys or kids. Our friends son in law had elective surgery yesterday on his neck and we don’t know the details, but apparently there were some scary complications. These were our friends that were over for dinner the other night and all four of them are doctors. The old adage, “if you want to stay healthy, stay out of the hospital” seems to have some weight to it. Another girl who works part time for me, just was mis-diagnosed and had her appendix removed when it didn’t need to be. The same thing happened to my wife when she was very young. Wow, take care of yourself, and remember, you know your body better than anyone.

We might win the lottery today. The key word here is “might”. You see I’ve had the number 28, 2.8 or 8 stuck in my head for days. This is odd as it’s not one of my favorite numbers. We might (there’s that word again) just take a chance and spend a buck on the lottery. That’s the limit though as a buck is much harder to come by these days than it was a few years ago. I’m not paranoid (and don’t want to go off on a rant) but hope that everyone we care about realizes we are living in different times. Please, no matter what you believe, do you best to stay healthy and buy a little extra food each time you go to the grocery store. It’s better to have a little extra and not need it than need it and have none.

Have a great day,

God Bless,

It’s Friday afternoon and we’re (actually I’m) just getting around to this! You see today is the first official day of my wife being at her new job where she actually gets to see some real customers! The past two days she’s been in a classroom learning the finer points of what sets Whole Foods apart from everyone else. I’ll tell ya, there’s a few things I used to eat that she’s totally ruined for me. I won’t go into to detail but to give you an example, chicken nuggets are off the list!

The morning was rushed as usual starting with a 4:30 wake up call to take Uncle Lolo to the airport as he’s headed back to NY. Last night we were talking about how fast people wake up and with him being Italian and slow by nature, he said he needs an hour and a half to just get going. I then asked if he needed to get up at 3am to shower and get ready for his flight to which he replied, in his fine english accent, “no man, you see, I will take a shower tonight, get dressed, and then just lay on top of the covers” (in his bed until 4:30). We couldn’t stop laughing, only an Italian would come up with this solution.

Today was busy as usual, pressure mounting, (as it always does about this time of the week) so I’ll be trying to fit some work into the weekend between taking kids to birthday parties, cleaning something (there’s always something to clean!), church and hopefully a bit of football.

I stopped in on my Mom today who was at the kitchen table trying to put on her pierced earrings. This usually takes her the better part of an hour. Being her favorite son, I felt obligated to slide them into each ear lobe for her which took me all of about 10 seconds. She was of course amazed at my hidden talent. If only it paid well. Then she shared with me a little known secret which she recently discovered. I know she’d be upset if I didn’t pass along this to you, which she then told me with great pride. Ready, here it is, listen closely, it’s real important! The University of Wisconsin mens basketball team has the highest free throw percentage of any team in the country! Well of course I was beside myself now that I was in possession of this life changing bit of information. I’m sure this too will have a big impact on all of you that receive this enlightening pearl of wisdom from reading this. In fact it’s so valuable, I suggest you each send us a check for $1000. I’m not sure how we all will be rewarded for knowing this but am confident that sometime, somewhere, we will be glad we do.

My mother in law  just rang us up wondering why there’s no blog today. Besides us being late today, there was a power outage at the site that holds the servers (computers) that send this to you all. My workin woman just walked in with a pizza and pre-cooked chicken (yes at 30% off) so I’m signing off. More tomorrow, hopefully I won’t be quite so tired.

p.s. it says posted on Jan 22nd but it’s actually 5pm on the 21st.

Our youngest munchkin got a brand new pair of rollers skates for his birthday and has been skating around the house morning and night. He puts a leash on the yellow lab and has her pull him through the house.  He has climbed the stairs in the skates a number of times and we have hopefully made the rule on climbing the stairs in skates clear…”No more stairs”.

Yesterday was a fun and exciting day at Whole Foods.  I was in a training class to learn the ins and outs of the company.  WF seems to be an amazing company…they will pay for a health screening once a year for any employee that wishes to have one.   It was a great day.  However, the drive home was a bit of a challenge.  The traffic was bumper to bumper, moving at a slow crawl. The snow was coming down hard and the roads were really slushy…no fun, but I made  it home safely.

We had our good friends over for dinner.  Our friend “Skier extraordinaire” had just come from his first doctor apt. for his cancer and seemed pleased with the Dr. and the facility.  My handsome hubby had dinner all prepared when I arrived.  The prime rib was perfect! The laundry was also washed, dried, folded and put away.  What a man!

The boys had basketball and once again had a terrific time.  We are carpooling with another family, so we did not attend practice last night.  I really missed watching them and this carpool thing may not work for me.

Off to work….hurray!!

God Bless

LLF

Yesterday was my wife’s 1st day (only 3 hours) on the job at Whole Foods. The 3 hours was spent on filling out paperwork and watching safety videos and other HR info. It seems like a really good company and she’s really excited. today she trains from 9 to 5 and same thing for tomorrow. On Friday she’s then thrown into the frying pan. I think we get our grocery discount card tomorow so no buying food until then.

I feel really good since I cut out all sugar and flour from my diet. I thought I’d miss bread and carbs more but am kind of falling into a routine. It’s supposed to snow this afternoon and the boys have their second night of basketball this evening. They are really looking forward to it.

Again today, I have a lot of work to do, it seems every day is gone before I know it. I’m going to try adding time periods ( start and finish times to each task), to my “to do list”. Hopefully this will help me stay on schedule. I’ve challenged myself to finish everything on my daily list and then do “one more thing” that can have a positive impact on the Company. My plan is that after time, these extra “things” will add up and pay off. (I know they will, I just need to make sure to find the time to do it)

My Mom is getting ready to go to Arizona for a few months. I hope she enjoys it as she deserves a break. I won’t go into detail (cause she too reads this), but she’s had a pretty rough couple of years, not that the 10 before that were a picnic! Maybe a change of scenery and a little more sun will revitalize her.

We just finished our family breakfast (a really good idea by my wife), and are headed up to get ready for school and work. I hope my wife enjoys her first full day at her new job. I know she’ll be a huge asset to Whole Foods. More tomorrow,

God Bless,

Yesterday at 11 am our home turned into Hogwarts castle (from Harry Potter fame) with 14 kids all dressed up for our youngest child’s 7th birthday. 12 boys and 2 girls in our home is pretty tough. Not many places to hide. All the children came dressed in Harry Potter costumes and my wife, along with the some enlisted help from neighbors and friends, really did an amazing job. The cake was a 3 tiered version of Hogwarts castle (thanks to Grandma Sara in CA for buying the cake!), and the house was draped in black curtains with candle sticks everywhere. Outside were black and purple balloons hanging from trees (some real and some old branches) all around the front yard. Once everyone arrived, we headed off on a 1 mile quest around the neighborhood to find treasure that my wife had strategically previously planted along the route. True to movie form, the wind was howling and felt like needles as it hit your face. None of the children were fazed as their only focus was more treasure that was found at each stop. The first clue lead them to a large tree across the street where 14 custom made black velvet bags, with jewels, were hanging from the branches looking like they were floating in the wind. Our neighbor Roxy, (who I grew up with) sewed each bag individually and you couldn’t have bought anything like them in any store, even if you wanted. Each child then put their “pouch” around there neck and the group headed off. My wife would read each clue aloud and then the race was on. We constantly had to get the front of the pack to stop and wait as the kids would be strung out for a block from front to rear. Each clue lead to a finely decorated box containing 14 prizes (one for each child) that included everything from the prized golden snitch (ping pong balls cut in half with plastic wings inserted, then glued back together and painted gold), to of course a custom wand (wood cut from our backyard painted gold with glitter glued on the tip), for each kid. We had to have wands but really didn’t think through the spells and stick pointing or hitting by 14 kids at once trying to “out spell” each other. Oh well, no one lost an eye, but it was close. The quest continued around the neighborhood and then we all ended up back at the house. Next was a magic show by my younger brother (the boys uncle), that was a big hit. Then our eldest took his turn at magic and wowed the crowd! Then hot dogs and some fruit, (the fruit really didn’t go over) and then time for cake. About this time I had to abandon the party and go to my downstairs office to refigure my computer network with help from Seattle, as we installed new servers over the weekend (these are big computers that run companies or groups of people), at our Company’s main office. When I finished, Party 1 was over. Next was the family party with grandma and Aunt Blondie and my brother coming back with more presents! After another hour of festivities, it was time to start preparing for bed. A good day was had by all.

My wife did an amazing job getting this all together. Being on a budget, she knew we had to come up with something that wouldn’t cost a lot of money. As it turns out, this was probably the best birthday party any child could have and cost the least. Our 9 year old was a bit jealous but didn’t let it show. However the bar has been raised for next December when he turns 9! He’s already planning out who he wants to come and what type of theme.

I really haven’t had a chance to touch on our Company meeting in Seattle. We really have a special group with a good chance to do some special things. We rented a 7000 and 5000 square foot house where we all stayed. This turned out to be a great choice as the bonding that resulted was priceless. Anyhow, I have two awesome (yes the word is appropriate here) partners, and a great group of co-workers from the front office to the front lines.

I decided (after reading a book from a Harvard professor) to eliminate almost all carbs from wheat and flour from my diet. I did go gluten free while in Seattle and felt great. Now I’m trying to take it a step further and will keep you posted. I also managed to stay on my exercise routine and hit the gym hard twice while out of town. In fact I worked out so hard on Saturday, I’m still sore. I’m really trying to put all facets of getting in shape (diet, exercise and attitude) together as my partner and closest friend in Seattle had lost probably 30 pounds (and he was only 160 or so to start with) and even has a washboard stomach! I was pretty impressed, not so much at how he looked but at his dedication to his new lifestyle.

As my wife said yesterday, we’re lucky enough to have our close friend, co-worker and extended family member, Lolo here from New York/Italy for a week. (he’s from Italy but currently living in NY) I brought him in to handle a few events that were previously scheduled by the man I had to let go early last week. He’s got to be the most polite, gracious person you’d ever hope to meet.

Back to work today after a 3 day weekend (due to the MLK holiday) with lots to do. I do feel reenergized and am excited about what lies ahead. I also feel a huge responsibility to lead by example and surpass any goals that we have planned. It’s really going to be a special year. We didn’t make it to the Stock Show but will try to squeeze it in this week. My lovely wife also starts at Whole Foods today, yeah!, and is busy all week. I’m happy for her as she really wanted this.

We hope everyone is doing well, send us a comment and let us know, and we’ll see you tomorrow.

God Bless,

We had a nice morning, especially since the cable remote went belly up.  The boys got out some games and played away while I made breakfast. They didn’t seem to notice the absence of mindless television at all. They played games until it was time to get dressed and head out to the airport. It was a really nice morning.

We picked up “Dad” and our “Italian” extended family member,”LoLo” from the airport and listened to the wisdom of 6 and 9 year old boys on the way home.

After a bit of cabin fever, the boys, the dogs and I needed some fresh air and exercise.  We walked a couple of miles (the boys rode scooters), stopped at the park again for some much needed “running around”.  Good for the kids…good for the dogs…and definitely good for me. On the way home each boy took a dog and had the dogs pull them part of the way home…good times!!  One more step toward our makeover.

We had five friends here for dinner last night. The food was good, the company better.  We relived some of our stories from our 20’s-30’s.  Very funny stuff, I can’t believe some of the things those Doctors did. The lovely Laquitcia shared a bit of her med student  years…I should have gone to med school!! Anyway, a wonderful night.  Of course, our oldest was trying to make off with as much chocolate as he could grab.  Fortunately, everyone was well aware of his tactics and stopped him at almost every turn.

The wind was insane and at 1 a.m. I bounded downstairs to pull up the awnings before they gave lift to our house. The wind was so loud it sounded as if a train was cruising overhead…needless to say sleep was elusive.

Our baby turns 7 today….The “Harry Potter” festivities are fast approaching….14 kids at our house…I really need to re think kids per square foot.  Wish us luck!!!

God Bless

LLF

I am downstairs all by myself which is a rarity in this house.  Usually the youngest wakes up at 5ish and wants to go downstairs…he is not one for sleeping in. However, this morning I quietly rolled out of bed and substituted a couple of pillows for me. Hopefully he won’t realize the difference for at least an hour or so.

We were semi successful at being unplugged, but it was not quite as a joyful experience as I had hoped.  The breakfast was eaten, the beds were made, teeth brushed, and clothes on…that was the first 12 minutes of the day.  The boys plus one friend and I took the furry part of our family for a 3 mile walk and then stopped to play at the park for a bit. We should have stayed there all day!  The sugar in the 3 yogurts they ate upon arriving home took effect almost immediately and then the fun began. Back and forth between happy and mad, they were into everything and wanting anything with sugar.  Oh the insidious sugar, it is like a drug for my guys.  I don’t know about other families, but here in this house even the 14 grams of sugar in yogurt(x3)makes for a rough afternoon.  We played mouse trap…that was fun until one decided that the other rolled the dice twice….then all the pieces were mysteriously knocked down.  We plowed forward and set the game up again.  This time we almost made it all the way around without incident…but not quite.  Again, the pieces flew and it was time to put the game away. There were tears and then much needed sleep. It was a really long day…I’ll try again today without the expectation of a Norman Rockwell. I will also have help entertaining and playing with the munchkins, as “Daddy” is coming home and bringing a friend along for reinforcement. Yea!!!

I am still waiting for information on the new job.  Like…when I start, what I wear, how soon I get the employee discount$$$$ all the useful information.  I am really excited for this new chapter of life.

I did manage to clean out the china closet yesterday, and to my overwhelming excitement I found the long lost wine cellar key.  You see, it has been missing since December 14th.  I originally thought it was accidentally dropped into a Christmas present and shipped out.  I was praying that it had not landed in the trash. I did have faith the the elusive key would turn up somewhere, but seriously, how it made it’s way into that closet I have absolutely no idea.  I am glad the key has returned.  We had to remove the locked door of the cellar to get in and re hang the door to lock it. Oh, happy days, I think we should make a spare!!

I hear whispers coming from the stairs…the monkeys are up!  DBF will be blogging tomorrow.  I have enjoyed writing the the blog these last four days, until next time.

God Bless

LLF

It is another gorgeous Colorado morning. Once again the sunrise has graced us with a sea of pink,yellow, gold, salmon and just a hint of turquoise. The mountains to the west are a deep purple and look as though they have been kissed on top with a touch of rose.  Truly a beautiful way to start the day.

The goal today is to be virtually unplugged from electronic entertainment .  The most difficult aspect of this particular goal for me, is that it is much easier to finish the projects I have in the works while the munchkins are planted in front of the T.V. Thus…I must “Relish the moment” for the boys and put my need to “Complete my projects” on the back burner.  It’s a good start for our  “Family makeover”.

The sneaky, deceptive critter in the attic is winning the battle thus far.  No, “It” is not gone as I had previously hoped.  Instead, “It” has stolen more treats without being caught. I have to respect this cunning little critter. I did, however, strategically place 4 pieces of “meese” poison out yesterday and they have been eaten. I am feeling bad for trying to get rid of one of God’s creatures, but my mom reminded me that I could very well end up with a colony of mice. EWW! I may lose a few battles to the critter, but I will hopefully win this war.

My sweet man is still working in Seattle.  The boys are missing him tremendously.  They seem to do well during the day, but at night it is difficult for them to go to sleep knowing that their dad isn’t here.  We had a delivery from Fed Ex yesterday that needed to be signed for and my eldest said, “I’ll sign for it mom, I am the man of the house now”.  Of course I signed since it required an adult signature.  Oh, what a big boy I have!

The Harry Potter party is coming together.  My friend, Roxy, made the wizard pouches/goody bags out of an old, black, crushed velvet skirt.  She added colored stars on the draw strings… they are hauntingly beautiful!! I am almost hoping we are minus one, so I can keep one for myself…key words..”Almost hoping”. The snitches are painted with movable wings, magic wands…all done, bookmarks ready, snacks and treats are ready to be found..cauldrons are waiting to be filled,, dining room resembles the dining hall in Hogwarts  Castle…thanks again to “Roxy”, whom has a plethora of fabrics just waiting for me to play with. Lucky, lucky me… Just add kids and I think we are ready to “Party”.

So, we are off for our Saturday challenge…First, breakfast… then…make the beds, get dressed, walk our “Paws”, play some games, clean the playroom, capture the dog hair(again)and maybe find a play date. Oh yes and pay some dreaded bills. Have a great day…until tomorrow.

God Bless

LLF

It’s a little after 5 a.m…. 3 minutes after to be exact and my littlest monkey has decided that it is time to start our day.  Under normal circumstances this would be a great time to start our day, but last night was yet another late night. Lack of sleep around this house, as in most, makes for a very challenging day.

My eldest had a school musical performance last night and it was absolutely adorable.  The music teacher is phenomenal and the children are even better!  The theme was “Snow day” and the children memorized 6 songs along with expressive movements and speaking parts. The excitement was palpable! I certainly don’t remember such elaborate, joyful programs when I was in 3rd grade…I’ll have to check with my mom, Sara, to obtain “total recall”.  Again, it was truly a pleasure to watch the 3rd and 4th graders.

I checked on my critter in the attic yesterday.  I think my intelligent adversary has moved on to a warmer house.  The treats are all in tact and no traps have been touched.  I hope he/she has found a new place to dwell. Of course, if my critter is a she…she may just be off having babies. Ugg! I just can’t take the conflict in my mind of what I may find during the long climb to the top of the attic stairs.

Tonight is game night, movie night and stay up late night.  I am hoping to outlast the kiddos on the latter.  They had such a hard time winding down the  last two nights that I may actually have a chance…Wish me luck.

The little monkey sitting next to me is requesting nachos for breakfast..I’m suggesting whole wheat pancakes and a topical fruit smoothie.  The kids are eating so much better since we have been sitting down to breakfast together….we talk and eat and enjoy each other’s company and I don’t even once have to remind them to finish. Yea!! One of my best memories of growing up was that every morning my mom had the table set, breakfast(vitamins included) waiting and she my dad and I would sit down together and start our day. What a gift!  I thought that was how everyone’s day started. So naive.

Side note..the boys did enjoy a treat that Aunt Blondie so graciously delivered last night.  Thank you Aunt Blondie!

My grand plan Saturday for the boys and myself is to be virtually unplugged. 1 hour of t.v. time(that is when I will get the blog written)no computer, no video games, etc. I’ll have to come up with some fun outdoor activities or indoor depending on the weather.  We will walk our family members of the four legged variety and perhaps practice for the scavenger hunt on Monday…fresh air and exercise rocks!

I finished putting the Golden Snitches together and “yea” for me the littlest boy said, “very cool, mom”. I had originally explained that the snitches may turn out “sort of cool” and his reply was..”they can’t be sort of cool, they have to be very cool”. The pressure…whew, I dodged a bullet there. Now I have to come up with Harry Potter clues for destinations around the neighborhood that coincide with locales related to the movies…don’t get me wrong..I truly love this sort of thing..theme parties, theme parks..anything with a costume…sooo much fun!!

Just a few things today to get my “house” in order.  A few closets, a few drawers, I’l have to hunt the dog hair once again and of course feed my soul…until tomorrow.

God Bless

LLF