5am once again

No matter how I try, I can’t sleep past about 5am. I remember when I was a teenager I could sleep until 10 or 11 easy. I can’t even imagine that nowadays. The kids had a full day, (even though it was a half day at school), that finished late last night after basketball. Our eldest comes home a bit after 8:30 and is looking for dinner. By this time Mom and the littlest one are already upstairs in bed. We’re really blessed as we have 2 really good boys.

The oldest and I have begun talking about our long awaited summer camping trip. We’ve been talking about it for years but this year decided everyone is finally old enough to go. If we don’t start planning now, something will come up and it won’t happen. It’s really important that the kids get exposed to the outdoors at a young age. Of course Mom wants some kind of bathroom. (she’d like to go back to our friends fancy ranch!) It sure would be nice if we had a camper to go on the back of our pick up truck (sounds kind of red neck but the new campers are really nice) but they cost around $30,000 and would only get used a few times a year at best. Hence, no camper here. I guess Mom will have to do without a bathroom. The other option is to rent a small motorhome, let Mom sleep in there and we boys will sleep outside. Stay tuned as a few months from now I promise the post following the family camping trip will be one not to miss!

It’s going to be in the 60’s all weekend. This means lots of slush and mud from all the melting snow. Hopefully the warm weather will stick around for a while. We’re all ready for Spring around here. I checked the weather for next week from here to Phoenix to make sure all’s ok for my Moms drive down to Arizona. So far, it looks good.

Mom’s up and our 120 lb Malamute is shadowing her every move. He likes me but loves her! I have a feeling today is going to be a good day. We’re on the verge of something life changing happening to our family. My wife is working (for the past few months), on her secret new business idea (can’t tell you what it is so don’t ask) that she thinks will be embraced by women everywhere. She needs to raise a little capital (which won’t be easy) but I think she might have found a nice little niche developing a much needed product that’s useful and fashionable. Stay tuned as someday you’ll probably be reading about her in People or Vogue magazine. We’re sitting here trying to remember what our youngest said yesterday as when we heard him, we both looked at each other and said we have to put that in the blog! Of course now we can’t remember. Our boys are such characters, we always say they should be on TV. My wife’s childhood friend is a big time Los Angeles producer with Disney connections and we always joke that we should put them both in the “Disney Machine”. Probably best we don’t as all you have to do is turn on the news to see how those childhood stars turn out, can you say Lindsey Lohan!

Well, time to get some exercise and have my third cup of joe. (maybe I should pass on that!) I’ve had a headache all night I think because the heat was too high. Hopefully 30 minutes on the elliptical will get rid of it.

Have a good day and stay healthy.

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The Day After

The short post yesterday was due to the fact that I had my 2nd colonoscopy at 8am. I wasn’t going to mention this but then thought there might be some people that have a stigma about this routine test. The worst part, which is a whole lot better than 5 years ago, is the prep the day before. You basically chug down a mixture of Gatorade and laxative over a couple of hours and then stay close to home. The procedure itself is not bad at all. Those who experience this for the first time are a bit nervous just because of the unknown. I witnessed this first hand again yesterday morning with people who were obviously coming to their first baptism from behind. You arrive at the center, a nice name for a sterile environment that used to be Taylor’s Supper Club, a dinner show club my parents used to take us to when I was a kid. The nice people then explain the procedure after you slip into a gown and wait for your turn. The procedure itself is only about 15 minutes long and you’re knocked out for the whole thing. The first time I remember watching the TV screen in the room but now they’ve switched drugs and your totally out of it the whole time. I don’t even remember walking back to my chair. I do recall telling stories to Amber, the nurse anesthesiologist, and then asking her “what are you doing in my house”. I hope I didn’t say anything embarrassing! Anyhow this test can be a life saver. Colon cancer is the second leading “cancer killer” and is totally preventable. If you have a family history (which we do little brother!) you should get tested as early as your mid 40’s. Five years ago I had a couple of polyps but this time was polyp free, must be all that clean living. So if anyone out there is 50 or older (or has a family history, then 45) get in there now. Enough said but you don’t want to die over something you can prevent.

Now for today, the kids have a half day at school, (you’ve got to be kidding me!) so they’ll be terrorizing the wife and I all afternoon. It’s 9 below outside right now but doesn’t seem that cold, I must be getting used to it. Looks like Grandma is heading down to Arizona where it’s a lot warmer, next week. We’ll have to try to get down to visit her maybe around Easter. I finally got the wife to the doctor yesterday where they put her on a Z Pak (5 days of antibiotics) to kick her cold or whatever she has. All 3 of these walking petri dishes (the 2 boys and my wife) are still part of some sinister plot to infect me, I know it. My wife is off work until the weekend so she’s trying to get better and get some chores done around the house. Looks like it’ll be the boys and me again this weekend.

I won’t be going to Italy next week as I now have a trip to San Francisco that came up yesterday (see I told you things change daily) and also need to get in a day trip to Miami and then D.C. which is still scheduled. It’s 7am and here comes Michelle Obama on the Today Show. She’s now trying to tell us that restaurants (by law) should be forced to limit their portion sizes. You’ve got to be kidding me, again! Let’s see, the government is now proposing regulation that says when I go to a restaurant and buy a steak, it can only be this big. Man I don’t know what the world is coming to. Over regulation and big government has to be stopped. (speaking of being stopped, my wife is stopping me now as I’m bordering on jumping into a political rant) In closing , my feeling is that if your overweight, go exercise or stop stuffing your face, point is, it’s not the government’s place to tell people what or how much they can eat. God help us.

Time to run as the kids are getting restless and I’m late for a call.

God Bless,

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More Snow

As promised, it’s back!!!! Looks like another 4 to 6 inches on the ground with it still coming down. It’s 9 degrees outside right now and the snow will continue throughout the day. The boys made it to school yesterday while Mom tried to get some much needed rest on the couch. She took the boys to the doctor after school and so far, all is ok. I guess we’re waiting on whooping cough tests that’ll come back in a couple of days. Mom is the one that needed to go to the doctor but of course, she didn’t get there. With an ok from the doctor, the boys did go to basketball. They sure love it and go right to sleep when they get home.

I need to get going and clean off the car as I need to be out the door by 7am. Lots of work going on and I need to make some plane reservations today. I was supposed to go to Italy on the 18th but have too many issues here stateside. Instead I’ll probably make a quick trip to Miami and then back out to D.C. around the first of the month. Hard to tell as things change daily.

Have to run, more later, maybe…..

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Super Sunday!

The Vince Lombardi (Super Bowl) trophy is headed back to Wisconsin. Named after arguably the best football coach ever, to those that knew him and/or played for him, he was a better man and mentor than a coach. I’ve read a few books about the man and it seems he was always more interested in teaching young men how to be “good men” rather than good football players. In the pre-game yesterday they interviewed Bart Starr, the famous quarterback from years ago. When asked about how Coach Lombardi prepared them for a game he said “coach didn’t prepare us for games, he prepared us for life”. He went on to say that Coach’s priorities were “God, then family and then us”, joking that we, and football, were way down the totem pole as far as importance in life. Other famous quotes include those such as “son, winning isn’t the most important thing, giving your best effort is”. Seems like today, we could use a bit of Lombardi wisdom in our lives. Oh well, important or not, it was a great game and I’m thrilled the Pack won!

We had a busy day yesterday making snow forts in the front yard in case the dreaded neighbor kids came over and dared to pick up a snowball. Mom worked until 5:30, (they let her go home a 1/2 an hour early) and we all watched the halftime show together. She had her first employee review yesterday and to no one’s surprise, (those of us that know her), she was of course rated “awesome” in all catagories. She started the day going to work with a temperature over 100 degrees but said she couldn’t call in sick as she’d only been there a few weeks and it was Super Bowl Sunday. That’s the kind of worker she is. It’s 6am and she still has a 101 degree fever and the boys are both nursing their endless head colds and deep rooted coughs. So far I’ve managed to avoid the plague that lives in our home.

We’re supposed to get another round of snow tonight that is threatening to close the schools tomorrow. We have a lot on the ground outside right now and it’ll warm up enough just to melt it a bit so it can re-freeze into a nice icy sheet on the walks and streets. We both (the wife and I) got in our exercise yesterday and passed on any adult beverages. We feel much better when we incorporate those practices into our days. The boys have basketball tonight but as of now, we need to keep them home as we need to try to kick these deep coughs. I’m off to the elliptical downstairs as my day starts with a conference call in about 90 minutes.

Enjoy the week and keep a positive attitude.

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Snowy Super Bowl Sunday

I awoke at 5 am to a fresh blanket (sounds cliche but really does look like a blanket) of snow. It looks like another 6 inches or so fell overnight and it’s still coming down. They say we’ll get up to another 4 inches today before it stops, then a bit of a break tomorrow before another round on Tuesday.

My honey was sent home a 1/2 hour early yesterday as her manager told her she’d worked so hard to just go home. If the world, or even a small percentage of it, had the work ethic of my wife, we wouldn’t be in the trouble we are today. Mark my words, she’ll be moving up the ladder faster than anyone else there. She works again today from 10 to 6 which means she’ll be home about half time of the big game. You see on Super Bowl Sunday, time is measured around the game. For example, it’s 3 hours 48 minutes before pre game right now. She finished putting the final touches on her famous tortilla soup and made a fresh load of guacamole for me and the boys. I think she’s downstairs on the elliptical getting some exercise. I was going to try to get to the gym but will probably follow her as we’re running out of time. I did shovel our walk and Grandma’s and cleaned off the cars which with 6 inches of snow is a workout in itself.

The youngest and I had some alone time yesterday while his older brother was at the birthday party. We did some shopping, went to the bookstore and had a hot chocolate. (mine was actually a double espresso) Then we headed home to finish the laundry and housecleaning. We picked his brother up about 5:45 and headed home for dinner. My brother made ribs and sauerkraut, an old standby from my youth. It was nice not to have to cook or eat my tortilla soup as it’s great game food.

I’m trying to get my Mom and brother together for the game but they’re both opting out saying they each want to watch the game alone. Wonder if I have bad breath? It’s probably the kids as they don’t want to be distracted during the game. Oh well, to me, part of the fun of the Super Bowl is getting together and watching it in a group. I guess this year it’ll be me and the boys! We’ll come up with some fun things like a “pool” with nickels or dimes, decorate the house a bit and make some fun non-alcholic drinks. Who knows, maybe well even have our own “snow bowl” game before the actual game starts. Maybe we’ll crash Grandma’s or my brother’s house before the game. (if either of you are reading this, you’d better answer the door if we show up!)

Too much snow to get up the hill to church. We really wanted to go today as there’s a kids class that starts today. I think it’ll probably be postponed as chains are required to get up the hill to our church. Oh well, time to get going as Mom will be showering and leaving pretty soon and I want to get 1/2 hour on the elliptical.

God Bless everyone and Go Pack! Give us a call in the 2nd half if you’re watching.

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The Weekend is Back

It’s Saturday morning and we’re all up. Mom has to work from 10 to 6 and the oldest has a birthday party from 1 to 6, so the youngest and I will be spending the afternoon together. His suggestions for the day include roller skating, going to the Lego store, Jose O’Shea’s (a mexican restaurant) for lunch, and playing the Wii game. All this while he’s still congested and has a runny nose. Not sure how much of the above will play out, we’ll have to wait and see as both boys can change their mind within seconds.

My friend with liver cancer got some good news yesterday after his biopsy.  Looks like it’s localized and they’re just going to go in and cut it out. Much better than having to go through chemo. I think I have him convinced to give up coke (I mean soda pop), and start eating better. He was pretty nervous before his appointment yesterday morning and on top of the world after. Funny how a near death experience will change ones view on life and hopefully their bad habits.

We had game night last night, just the four of us. We played (or tried to play) Cranium. It’s a pretty difficult game, especially for kids. (there has to be a kid version) We had some pretty funny moments but boy is our eldest competitive. If the rules aren’t followed to the letter, look out as he turns into judge, jury and executioner. We have to repeatedly point out that’s it’s just a game. Anyhow we had fun and then had a bite of dinner and tried to call it an early night. The snow is supposed to return this afternoon and stick around until mid week.

Mom’s making tortilla soup (I can smell it from the couch) for tomorrow’s big game, because she won’t be home from work until the 2nd half. I’m sure proud of her sticking to work. She picked up her first paycheck yesterday and it was a bit over $450. It doesn’t seem like a lot for as much as she worked. I had to remind her of the other benefits such as the discount of groceries but more importantly her getting out of the house and back into the real world. Week after next she starts training to be a cashier and then things should be a little bit more fun. One of the best benefits is all the stuff she’s learning about our food supply and what’s good for you but more importantly, what’s really bad for you. I’m starting to plan out our garden for the coming season. We’re going to take another stab at it and hopefully have some better results this year. I’ve been reading and studying for a few months and am going to narrow it down to things I think we can really grow well. We’d really like to stick some chickens up at Grandma’s (in the horse pasture) but this is a pretty big project. I had another thought as we have a 90 year old lady down the street we get fresh eggs from right now. Problem is we only get a dozen or so a week and we need about 4 or 5 dozen a week! I was thinking of approaching her and seeing if we could buy her some more chickens and/or help pay for the feed and in return, get more eggs each week, kind of like a co-op. This sure would be an easier way to go.

Gotta get going as it’s almost 8 and I need to get some exercise in before Mom’s off to work. We also need to get a birthday present for the party today, wish we could just recycle some of the useless toys upstairs. I guess my mother in-law is having a big 80th birthday bash in Sacramento on April 8th. We’ll have to make this one for sure. I’m ok with driving but my wife thought the last drive was a living hell. I just asked both boys and they’re split on whether we should drive or not. It’s almost as expensive to drive as fly when you factor in a rental car and the other expenses. Anyhow, looks like we’re going to California in early April.

Stay safe and remember, Go Packers! (for my Mom’s sake)

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Warming Trend ?????

It’s 19 degrees this morning, feels like summer. Today we get a break before the snow comes back tomorrow afternoon and supposedly lasts through mid week. We coaxed Grandma into coming over for dinner last night. It was a really enjoyable evening. The kids were well behaved (we bribed them, no just kidding), and dinner was great. Continuing with the theme of earlier days posts, we prodded Grandma to tell us some stories of her childhood. It seems she too has many similar experiences of many of those who grew up in that era.

One story was when she was in high school and went with her friend and family on a trip to Chicago. This of course was a pretty big deal for a girl from a small town in Wisconsin in 1950. She told us of how a few days earlier she smashed her thumb in a car door and had to frequently stop on the way to soak it. When in Chicago, she and her friend donned their finest cotton dresses (probably home made) and headed off to the Trianon Ballroom for a dance. She says they were way underdressed compared to all the “city girls” in their finest dresses. Somehow I think my Mom was still the most beautiful girl in the room, she’s always been a looker. Anyhow she remembers an older boy, she says, “he must have been 20 or 21 one and I can still see his face”, who asked her to dance. This must have been quite a trip. Other stories include her skating in freezing cold weather when she was young and one afternoon before dinner, while doing her finest Sonja Henie impersonation, she fell and broke her wrist. Her Mom, (my Grandma) then fashioned a splint with a cardboard box from a block of cheese (Wisconsin is a big cheese country), around her wrist and arm as there were no emergency rooms to visit at night and they could do nothing until the morning. She remembered “walking the floor” all night in pain. Can you imagine the pain of a broken wrist that needs to be set, wrapped up in a cardboard box, and then being told to go to sleep until the doctor is in the next morning? We shared other memories of her childhood and mine as life in Wisconsin was pretty good in those days. My grandparents (her parents) were really good people. Simple words, but sums it up. They were kind, thoughtful, and caring. I never remember either of them remotely upset at anything. Perhaps my Mom does, but I can’t imagine them ever yelling or raising their voice. Maybe I’ll get a little more insight today as my Mom told me she’d share the story of when she wrote a letter to the Governor and in her words, “boy were my parents mad!”.

It seems life was much different back then. After hearing stories (from my Mom and mother in-law), some might say it was a much harder life, but if you didn’t know any better, I don’t think you’d notice. I look forward to hearing more from my Mom, we need to write these down! I can’t believe I’m in my 50’s and just now hearing some of these stories. Well, better late than never.

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Back to School

After the kids being home 4 of the past 5 days, they finally go back to school today, yea! I think even they are excited as the last 2 days have pretty much been spent inside the house. Mom did get each of them a play date yesterday which helped some but I think they were still kind of bored and tired of being stuck in the house. We finally will all wake up today with no house guests. No matter how easy or good your guests are, it’s always a great day when they finally leave and you can get back to your family routine.

My wife and I were talking about yesterday’s post (the part at the end) where it talked about life for our parents and grandparents. She talked to her Mom before she (her Mom), read the post and asked about her experiences as a little girl. I guess it was pretty similar as she told my wife they didn’t have running water until she was in high school. They also had a big tank to collect water that they filled with charcoal to filter out the impurities. I think she said that a lot of the time the water was more or less unfiltered as they didn’t always have money for coal. Funny how we’re only a generation removed from such a different way of life.

If you’ve been reading along daily, you might think we’re some kind of survivalists. Well relax. You see, we really don’t subscribe to this type of thinking as most of those people (I think) are planning on some sort of Armageddon fast approaching. We on the other hand just have little faith in the government being able to take care of anyone in a time of crisis. If you look at events such as Hurricane Katrina or the foreclosure problem facing many family’s, our government has all kinds of expensive programs designed to take care of these people, but they never seem to actually work. Having a couple of young children prompts us to try to have some basic living supplies on hand to get by in the event stores run out of things for an extended period of time. This is mainly food as I’m sure our kids would go into some sort of coma if they didn’t eat every 30 minutes! Anyhow we kind of see a time where people are going to have to be more self reliant as many of the comforts we have today will either be too expensive or unavailable in the future. I don’t think anyone can argue the fact that things will not continue status quo or as they are right now. There’s just too much that needs fixing whether it be social security, the economy in general, the nations food supply, our bridges and roads, etc. If you really think about it, you get the picture. We just don’t have the money as a nation to fix everything. As I said a few weeks ago, we need to start building and buying things in America again.

Oh well, enough of my rant on what’s wrong with our Country. At least I’ve stayed away from politics. (my wife won’t let me go there) Remember to live each day like it’s your last as you never know!

In closing, if anyone has any stories to tell from when they were kids (all you grandma’s out there), leave us a comment and will include it in a coming post.

best,

Side note : 2  note worthy additions….First, the youngest tripped over, or was tripped by his brother yesterday and knocked out his loose tooth. It is the first tooth he has lost.

Second, during this deep freeze..while the boys were suffering from cabin fever…I asked the youngest…”Why are you behaving so badly”, to which he replied, “Maybe because I am related to 2 kings”. There you have it, one simple statement that explains it all!!

Have a great day!

LLF

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The Deep Freeze

Ok, it’s really cold! 20 degrees below zero last night. It doesn’t seem that bad unless the wind is blowing but you can feel it in your lungs when you breath in. We kept the faucets dripping all night to make sure the pipes didn’t freeze. We’ve had enough pipe issues for a while. The kids had a snow day yesterday and in the afternoon we got the dreaded call telling us they will be home 1 more day. (it’s actually a good thing as they both had fevers from their lingering colds yesterday) Uncle J’s plane took off ok but Zio Lolo is still with us. He’s supposed to fly out to NY late this afternoon. It’s been a wild year for weather. Some say it’s some kind of sign of something but I think it’s part cyclical, part man made. What I mean is these type of years probably come along maybe every 100 or 200 years but we live such a short time that this generation hasn’t experienced it. The man made part is probably a result of all the crap (for lack of a better word) that we as a “world of progress” have spewed into the atmosphere. I’m not sure what or how we’ve done this but there has to be some negative implications to all the pollution we endlessly generate. Hopefully we will all wake up and realize we have only 1 planet and start to take care of it before it’s too late.

I was reading another blog the other day and I came across a guy who asked his mother about life when she was a kid in the early 1900’s in Montana. It’s pretty interesting when you read it as it makes you appreciate all the comforts we have in today’s modern society. They sure worked hard just to exist 100 years ago. It’s kind of long but I’m going to add it at the end of today’s post for those who want to read it. You might want to take a peek as if things keep going they way they are with our economy, endless unrest, revolution and fighting around the world, etc., we might end up someday with a similar life.

Roller boy is at it again, skating around the house in his pj’s. The protest in Egypt has turned violent, (hope that doesn’t spiral out of control), and I think we’ll put on a pot of homemade soup to ward off the cold. The oldest boy is still sleeping and the youngest is ready for breakfast so time to go. Stay warm and be safe. Here’s the promised piece on life in the early 1900’s. I’m sure my Mom and mother in law have some similar memories.

God Bless,

Wonder what is what like when my grandparents or their parents were kids? Ever wonder what life might be like?  What would it really be like to have no running water, electricity, sewer, newspaper or Internet?  No supermarket or fire department close at hand?

I have a good imagination but I decided to talk to someone who would know first hand what it was like: my mother.  She grew up on a homestead in the middle of Montana during the 1920s and 1930s.  It was a two room Cottonwood cabin with the nearest neighbor three miles away.  She was oldest at 9, so she was in charge of her brother and sister.  This was her reality; I feel there are lessons here for the rest of us.

There was a Majestic stove that used wood and coal.  The first person up at four thirty A.M., usually her father, would start the fire for breakfast.  It was a comforting start to the day but your feet would get cold when you got out of bed.

A crosscut saw and axe was used to cut wood for the stove and after that experience, you got pretty stingy with the firewood because you know what it takes to replace it.  The old timers say that it warms you when you cut it, when you split it, and again when you burn it.  The homes that were typical on homesteads and ranches of the era were smaller with lower ceilings than modern houses just so they could be heated easier.  The saw and axe were not tools to try hurrying with.  You set a steady pace and maintained it.  A man in a hurry with an axe may loose some toes or worse.  One side effect of the saw and axe use is that you are continuously hungry and will consume a huge amount of food.
Lights in the cabin were old fashioned kerosene lamps.  It was the kid’s job to trim the wicks, clean the chimneys and refill the reservoirs.

The privy was downhill from the house next to the corral and there was no toilet paper.  Old newspaper, catalogs or magazines were used and in the summer a pan of barely warm water was there for hygiene.  During a dark night, blizzard, or brown out from a dust storm, you followed the corral poles-no flashlights.

There were two springs close to the house that ran clear, clean, and cold water.  The one right next to it was a “soft” water spring.  It was great for washing clothes and felt smooth, almost slick, on your skin.  If you drank from it, it would clean you out just as effectively as it cleaned clothes.  Not all clean water is equal.

The second spring was a half mile from the cabin and it was cold, clear, and tasted wonderful.  The spring itself was deep – an eight foot corral pole never hit bottom- and flowed through the year.  It was from here that the kids would fill two barrels on a heavy duty sled with water for the house and the animals.  They would lead the old white horse that was hitched to the sledge back to the buildings and distribute the water for people and animals.  In the summer, they made two trips in the morning and maybe a third in the evening.  In the winter, one trip in the morning and one in the evening.  They did this alone.

Breakfast was a big meal because they’re going to be working hard.  Usually there would be homemade sausage, eggs and either cornmeal mush or oatmeal.  More food was prepared than what was going to be eaten right then.  The extra food was left on the table under a dish towel and eaten as wanted during the day.  When evening meal was cooked, any leftovers were reheated.  The oatmeal or the mush was sliced and fried for supper.  It was served with butter, syrup, honey or molasses.

The homemade sausage was from a quarter or half a hog.  The grinder was a small kitchen grinder that clamped on the edge of a table and everybody took turns cranking.  When all the hog had been ground, the sausage mix was added and kneaded in by hand.  Then it was immediately fried into patties.  The patties were placed, layer by layer, into a stone crock and covered with the rendered sausage grease.   The patties were reheated as needed.  The grease was used for gravies as well as re-cooking the patties.  Occasionally a fresh slice of bread would be slathered with a layer of sausage grease and a large slice of fresh onion would top it off for quick sandwich.  Nothing was wasted.
Some of their protein came from dried fish or beef.  Usually this had to be soaked to remove the excess salt or lye.  Then it was boiled.  Leftovers would go into hash, fish patties, or potato cakes.

Beans?  There was almost always a pot of beans on the stove in the winter time.
Chickens and a couple of milk cows provided needed food to balance the larder.  They could not have supported a growing family without these two resources.
The kitchen garden ran mostly to root crops.  Onion, turnip, rutabaga, potato and radishes grew under chicken wire.  Rhubarb was canned for use as a winter tonic to stave off scurvy.  Lettuce, corn, and other above ground crops suffered from deer, rats, and gumbo clay soil. Surprisingly, cabbage did well.  The winter squash didn’t do much, only 2 or 3 gourds.  Grasshoppers were controlled by the chickens and turkeys.  There was endless hoeing.

Washing clothes required heating water on the stove, pouring it into three galvanized wash tubs-one for the homemade lye soap and scrub board, the other two for rinsing.  Clothes were rinsed and wrung out by hand, then hung on a wire to dry in the air.  Your hands became red and raw, your arms and shoulders sore beyond belief by the end of the wash.  Wet clothing, especially wool, is heavy and the gray scum from the soap was hard to get out of the clothes.

Personal baths were in a galvanized wash tub screened by a sheet.  In the winter it was difficult to haul, heat and handle the water so baths weren’t done often.  Most people would do sponge baths.

Everybody worked including the kids.  There were always more chores to be done than time in the day.  It wasn’t just this one family; it was the neighbors as well.  You were judged first and foremost by your work ethic and then your honesty.  This was critical because if you were found wanting in either department, the extra jobs that might pay cash money, a quarter of beef, hog or mutton would not be available.  Further, the cooperation with your neighbors was the only assurance that if you needed help, you would get help.  Nobody in the community could get by strictly on their own.  A few tried.  When they left, nobody missed them.
You didn’t have to like someone to cooperate and work with him or her.

Several times a year people would get together for organized activities: barn raising, butcher bee, harvest, roofing, dance, or picnics.  There were lots of picnics, usually in a creek bottom with cottonwoods for shade or sometimes at the church.  Always, the women would have tables groaning with food, full coffee pots and, if they were lucky, maybe some lemonade. (Lemons were expensive and scarce)  After the work (even for picnics, there was usually a project to be done first) came the socializing.  Many times people would bring bedding and sleep out overnight, returning home the next day.

A half dozen families would get together for a butcher bee in the cold days of late fall.  Cows were slaughtered first, then pigs, mutton, and finally chickens.  Blood from some of the animals was collected in milk pails, kept warm on a stove to halt coagulation and salt added.  Then it was canned for later use in blood dumplings, sausage or pudding.  The hides were salted for later tanning; the feathers from the fowl were held for cleaning and used in pillows or mattresses.  The skinned quarters of the animals would be dipped into cold salt brine and hung to finish cooling out so they could be taken home safely for processing.  Nothing went to waste.

The most feared occurrence in the area was fire.  If it got started, it wasn’t going out until it burned itself out.  People could and did loose everything.
The most used weapon was the .22 single shot Winchester with .22 shorts.  It was used to take the heads off pheasant, quail, rabbit and ducks.  If you held low, the low powered round didn’t tear up the meat.  The shooters, usually the kids, quickly learned sight picture and trigger control although they never heard those terms.  If you took five rounds of ammunition, you better bring back the ammunition or a critter for the pot for each round expended. It was also a lot quieter and less expensive [in those days] than the .22 Long Rifle cartridges.

If you are trying to maintain a low profile, the odor of freshly baked bread can be detected in excess of three miles on a calm day.  Especially by kids.
Twice a year the cabin was emptied of everything.  The walls, floors, and ceilings were scrubbed with lye soap and a bristle brush.  All the belongings were also cleaned before they came back into the house.  This was pest control and it was needed until DDT became available.  Bedbugs, lice, ticks and other creepy crawlies were a fact of life and were controlled by brute force.  Failure to do so left you in misery and maybe ill.

Foods were stored in bug proof containers.  The most popular was fifteen pound metal coffee cans with tight lids.  These were for day to day use in the kitchen.  (I still have one. It’s a family heirloom.)  The next were barrels to hold the bulk foods like flour, sugar, corn meal, and rice.  Everything was sealed or the vermin would get to it.  There was always at least one, preferably two, months of food on hand.  If the fall cash allowed, they would stock up for the entire winter before the first snowfall.

The closest thing to a cooler was a metal box in the kitchen floor.  It had a very tight lid and was used to store milk, eggs and butter for a day or two. Butter was heavily salted on the outside to keep it from going rancid or melting.  Buttermilk, cottage cheese and regular cheese was made from raw milk after collecting for a day or two.  The box was relatively cool in the summer and did not freeze in the winter.

Mice and rats love humanity because we keep our environment warm and tend to be sloppy with food they like.  Snakes love rats and mice so they were always around.  If the kids were going to play outside, they would police the area with a hoe and a shovel.  After killing and disposing of the rattlesnakes- there was always at least one-then they could play for a while in reasonable safety.

The mice and rats were controlled by traps, rocks from sling shots, cats and coyotes.  The cats had a hard and usually short life because of the coyotes.  The coyotes were barely controlled and seemed to be able to smell firearms at a distance.  There were people who hunted the never-ending numbers for the bounty.

After chores were done, kid’s active imagination was used in their play.  They didn’t have a lot of toys.  There were a couple of dolls for the girls, a pocket knife and some marbles for the boy, and a whole lot of empty to fill.  Their father’s beef calves were pretty gentle by the time they were sold at market – the kids rode them regularly.  (Not a much fat on those calves but a lot of muscle.)  They would look for arrow heads, lizards, and wild flowers.  Chokecherry, buffalo berry, gooseberry and currants were picked for jelly and syrups.  Sometimes the kids made chokecherry wine.

On a hot summer day in the afternoon, the shade on the east side of the house was treasured and the east wind, if it came, even more so.
Adults hated hailstorms because of the destruction, kids loved them because they could collect the hail and make ice cream.
Childbirth was usually handled at a neighbor’s house with a midwife if you were lucky.  If you got sick you were treated with ginger tea, honey, chicken soup or sulphur and molasses.  Castor oil was used regularly as well.  Wounds were cleaned with soap and disinfected with whisky.  Mustard based poultices were often used for a variety of ills.  Turpentine, mustard and lard was one that was applied to the chest for pneumonia or a hacking cough.

Contact with the outside world was an occasional trip to town for supplies using a wagon and team.  A battery operated radio was used very sparingly in the evenings.  A rechargeable car battery was used for power.  School was a six mile walk one way and you brought your own lunch.  One school teacher regularly put potatoes on the stove to bake and shared them with the kids.  She was very well thought of by the kids and the parents.

These people were used to a limited amount of social interaction.  They were used to no television, radio, or outside entertainment. They were used to having only three or four books.  A fiddler or guitar player for a picnic or a dance was a wonderful thing to be enjoyed.  Church was a social occasion as well as religious.
The church ladies and their butter and egg money allowed most rural churches to be built and to prosper.  The men were required to do the heavy work but the ladies made it come together.  The civilizing of the west sprang from these roots.  Some of those ladies had spines of steel.  They needed it.

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32 Below Zero

It’s 6am and that’s the wind chill outside right now. The actual temperature is about 5 below but it feels much colder. They cancelled school today so the boys are sleeping in. It’s a good thing as they both still have the sniffles and could use a day of rest.

We had a nice, but short time at Grandma’s last night for her birthday. We we’re running late with Uncle J and Zio Lolo here as the day just got away from us with all the work we had to do. Both leave today, Lolo this morning and J in the afternoon. It’s good to have a house full, (even though more work), when it’s these two which are just like family. Uncle J has been on his own version of a makeover for many months. He took up running, I believe during the summer, and has totally transformed himself into the best shape I’ve ever seen him. We were talking last night about raising kids and the challenges and downside of living in the city or burbs verses the country. While the country too has it’s own challenges, like being a much more physical life with less access to the malls, (if you call that a challenge) it has a lot of upside as well. Up where my family has property, the kids go to school 4 days a week. There the school day runs 2 hours longer each day than our school day here in the city. This is so the kids can help out around the ranch 3 days a week. I’m sure there are problems associated with a rural lifestyle as well but it just seems healthier as a whole, as well as a bit more isolated from the many of the things wrong that kids are confronted with in today’s world. I mentioned a few weeks ago of our brief exposure to this environment when we had the pleasure of visiting a friends ranch in Wyoming for an extended weekend. The kids still talk about how it was the best time they ever had and they didn’t even notice they had no TV, video games or music for 4 days! They were also up and outside by 7am going strong until dinner and slept soundly. It was a brief glimpse into life in another world. Now I’m not naive enough to believe that this kind of lifestyle would be all peaches and cream, in fact I know it would pretty much be the opposite. That doesn’t mean though that it wouldn’t be a better place for kids to grow up. I bring this up again as Uncle J last night, out of the blue, shared his wishes to someday move to the country where there’s a more physical, less society influenced lifestyle. I would have never thought I would hear this from him! Maybe we can move the Company headquarters to the mountains. All we really need is access to an airport and internet, which seems to be available everywhere. Oh well, who knows, maybe one day. I have to make time to sit down with my Mom and have her tell us more about life when she was a kid, that sure is interesting.

Zio Lolo just came down and told us his flight to NY was cancelled, looks like he’s here for another day. There might be a 6pm flight. Time to grab another cup of coffee and hit the phones as I have a call with Florida in 15 minutes.

Stay safe, stay calm and enjoy the day.

God Bless,

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